You’re not bad at love. You just never got the tools.
Break the patterns that block intimacy—with God, yourself, and others.
Join Foundations NowYou’ve done the therapy. You’ve prayed. You’ve grown. But relationships still feel confusing. Discouraging.
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Does this sound like you?
- You’re clear on your calling but unsure how dating fits into your purpose.
- You're thriving in your career or/and ministry but second-guessing in love
- You lead with integrity but find yourself questioning your standards in relationships.
- You’re not afraid to be alone but you do long for a partner who gets it.
- You want to date with wisdom not anxiety, confusion, or second-guessing.
- You love God and value healing but keep attracting misaligned connections.
You’re Not the Only One Asking These Questions
You’re not the only one feeling this tension.
Many faith-driven, growth-minded singles have never been taught how to date with both emotional wisdom and spiritual clarity.
You don’t need louder opinions from other singles.
You need a framework that actually works.
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That's why we created Foundations, a 6-week faith-rooted relationship course for thoughtful, growth-minded singles who are ready to break unhealthy patterns, heal from the past, and build the kind of connection that lasts.
This isn’t swipe culture.
This is soul work.
You’ll blend Scripture, psychology, and real-life practice to heal what blocks intimacy and build the kind of relationship you were made for.
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A Faith-Rooted Way to Date with Clarity and Confidence.
This isn’t just theory. It’s a framework that actually works.
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Why?
Because you deserve more than surface-level advice. Foundations shows you how to blend Scripture, psychology, and real-life tools so you can uncover what’s blocking intimacy and build the connection God designed you for.
You don’t need another list of red flags.
You need a reset, a faith-filled path that heals what’s underneath the pattern.
You'll Walk Away With:
✅ Emotional Clarity — so you stop confusing chemistry for compatibility
✅ Secure Confidence — so you stop shrinking, chasing, or settling
✅ Dating Discernment — so you pace relationships with vision, not vibes.
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This Course Is For You If:
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You’re tired of confusing or one-sided relationships
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You want to date in a way that reflects your faith and emotional growth
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You’ve done some healing — but still feel stuck or unsure in love
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You’re ready to date with clarity, not chase chemistry
What You’ll Learn Inside Foundations
This 6-week self-paced course is designed to help you unlearn what love isn’t — and build a new framework for dating rooted in clarity, confidence, and emotional integrity.
Each module builds on the last, guiding you step-by-step from confusion to clarity, and from old patterns to purposeful connection.
WEEK 1
Week 1: The Foundation Beneath the Frustration
Discover the hidden beliefs that shape your relationships.
You’ll uncover the root patterns keeping you stuck and how your past may still be influencing your present. This week gives you the language, insight, and emotional grounding to understand why love hasn’t worked the way you hoped.
🟡 So you can stop blaming yourself and start healing with intention.
WEEK 2
Week 2: Who Taught You Love?
Family, faith, and first impressions shape more than we realize
This module explores how your early models of love from your home, church, or culture shaped your expectations, reactions, and fears in dating. You’ll begin identifying what you want to carry forward, and what it’s time to release.
🟡 So you can name your needs clearly and stop repeating what no longer serves you.
WEEK 3
Week 3: What Secure Conflict Sounds LikeÂ
Understand your triggers and respond with grace
We all get activated. But healthy love doesn’t avoid conflict — it handles it with safety and grace. This week, you’ll learn how to recognize your conflict style, regulate your nervous system, and communicate without losing connection.
🟡 So you can stop ghosting, overexplaining, or shutting down — and start showing up as your full self.
WEEK 4
Week 4: Patterns, Pain, and Pursuit
Are you chasing peace — or performing for approval?
 This week dives deep into emotional attraction, anxious/avoidant dynamics, and how to spot when old wounds are running the show. You'll learn how to discern desire from dysfunction — and find your way back to secure love.
🟡 So you can stop being drawn to the wrong things — and start trusting the right ones.
WEEK 5
Week 5: Defining Values, Standards, and Relationship Readiness
Love isn’t luck — it’s alignment.
We give you tools to identify your dealbreakers, preferences, and spiritual alignment. You’ll also map out your relationship vision using our Clarity Grid — so you can stop second-guessing and start dating with peace.
🟡 So you can move at the right pace with the right person — not just the next person.
WEEK 6
Week 6: Dating From a Firm Foundation – Move forward with clarity and peace
Move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace.
This final module integrates everything you’ve learned. It’s about knowing you’re ready — not because you’re perfect, but because you’ve built a foundation rooted in identity, healing, and trust in God’s timing.🟡 So you can date from fullness, not fear — and choose love that aligns with who you truly are.
Meet Your Coaches
We’ve lived the confusion, the heartbreak, and the healing. That’s why we built this.
We’re Melanie and Xavier Durrant—co-founders of The Last Lap Method™, and a real-life couple who’ve been through the fire, found healing in Christ, and are now helping others build love that actually lasts.
Between us, we’ve spent nearly 15 years mentoring, coaching, and walking with singles—through heartbreaks, career changes, spiritual resets, and the highs and lows of modern dating. We've helped people navigate trauma, redefine their worth, and build relationships rooted in faith, clarity, and emotional maturity.
But we’re not just professionals—we’re witnesses.
đź’¬ Xavier left a 13-year corporate career to become a licensed psychotherapist after walking through betrayal, divorce, and deep inner healing. He now specializes in helping couples understand the why behind their patterns, and how to show up with secure, Christ-centered confidence in love.
đź’¬ Melanie spent over a decade in DEI and coaching, mentoring women and young professionals through seasons of doubt, desire, and rediscovery. A former party girl turned purpose-driven wife, she brings both humor and wisdom to every space she leads.
Our love story didn’t begin in a therapist’s office. It started in real life—through heartbreak, surrender, and God’s perfect timing. And it confirmed something we both deeply believe:
👉🏽 When healing meets clarity, love doesn’t have to be complicated to be real.
That’s why we created Foundations—to give you the tools we wish we had earlier, and the process we now use to help hundreds of thoughtful, faith-driven singles break free from old patterns and step into lasting connection.
We’re honored to walk this road with you.
Real People. Real Transformation.
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—Marline J.
“Mel doesn’t just speak life into you—she calls the best out of you. One conversation with her shifted my faith from knowing about God to actually knowing Him. Because of her leadership, I now lead other women in their own faith journeys.”
—Roberto O.
“Through prayer, mentorship, and encouragement, Xavier helped me find clarity and joy when I was lost. Because of his guidance, I now lead others with the same wisdom he poured into me.”
What Makes Us Different
You don’t need more “just wait on God” advice.
You need tools that help you walk with God while healing what’s been holding you back.
At Last Lap, we blend Scripture, psychology, and story to help you recognize patterns that block intimacy and build relationships that reflect your values.
Most dating programs focus on tips and tricks.
Ours focuses on transformation.
Here’s how we’re different:
🟤 Faith Meets Framework
We don’t separate spiritual growth from emotional health. You’ll gain a biblically sound foundation and practical tools rooted in attachment theory, trauma-informed insight, and real-world relationship dynamics.
🟤 Culturally Conscious & Relationally Real
We understand how culture, race, and upbringing shape your relational experiences. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. It’s honest, nuanced, and designed for thoughtful Christian singles navigating real life.
🟤 Tested by Life, Not Just Theory
This isn’t just research—it’s testimony. We’ve lived the heartbreak, done the work, and walked with others through healing. We don’t just teach this. We’ve lived it.
🟤 Built for the Final Stretch
Whether you’re dating with intention or re-entering after heartbreak, Last Lap exists for the final stretch—the part where clarity, healing, and maturity matter most.
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🎉 Labor Day Special: Enroll in Foundations for $197 (normally $297). Ends Sept 2.
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Foundations Course
$197
Normally $297 — Enroll before Labor Day and get Foundations for just $197 (originally $297)
Break old patterns. Build a new foundation.
A 6-week self-paced roadmap to help you prepare for the relationship you’ve been praying for — rooted in faith, backed by proven relationship science.
âś… Lifetime access to all modules
âś… Practical exercises + real-life examples
âś… Faith + attachment science integration
âś… Bonus: Reflection workbook & devotional
âś…Guided prayers & meditations for reflection
âś…Over 6 hours of transformational video contentÂ
 ✅Built on value system attachment, neurotheology, & biblical frameworksÂ
âś…Â Clear actions for dating with confidence
 ✅ Learn at your own pace — revisit anytime
Ready-to-Run (Live 12-Week Intensive)
$997
(Most Popular)
 From knowledge to transformation.
Ready-to-Run is a live, small-group intensive designed to help you actively build a secure, God-centered relationship. Over 12 weeks, we walk beside you with coaching, community, and real-time application of biblical principles and proven relationship science.
What’s Included:
✅ 12-week live coaching intensive — 2 hours/week on Zoom
âś… Small group setting for deeper connection & accountability
âś…All features of the Foundations self-paced course (including guided prayers & meditations)
âś…Over 6 hours of transformational video content + live coaching
âś…Built on value system attachment, neurotheology, & biblical frameworks
âś… Step-by-step coaching to help you navigate dating and relationships with confidence
âś… Guided exercises to apply course material in real life
âś… Personalized feedback from Xavier & Melanie
âś… Access to all Foundations self-paced content
âś… Monthly Q&A + hot-seat coaching
âś… Private community space for discussion & prayer support
âś… Practical dating strategies, communication tools, and conflict navigation skills
âś… Faith integration throughout — rooted in biblical principles & attachment science.Â
Bundled Foundations + Ready-to-Run
$1047
Save when you enroll in both.
Our VIP Inner Circle: the complete transformation package + exclusive access to our most invested community.
Start with Foundations to break old cycles, then go deeper with Ready-to-Run for hands-on coaching, accountability, and practical tools that last a lifetime.
âś… All features of the Foundations self-paced course (including guided prayers & meditations)
âś… Over 6 hours of transformational video content + live coaching
âś… Built on value system attachment, neurotheology, & biblical frameworks
âś… All features of the 12-week Ready-to-Run live intensive
âś… Bonus: Private coaching call with Xavier & Melanie
âś… Priority access to matchmaking services
âś… Early access to exclusive singles mixers, featured guest speaker events, and curated workshops
✅ Exclusive drops — resources, trainings, and tools only for this group
âś… Dating profile upgrade + professional headshots
âś… Dating cue cards to keep you confident & intentional
✅ More personalized ongoing support — direct check-ins & guidance
✅ Be part of our inner circle — first to test new ideas, give feedback, and shape what we build next
âś… Ongoing community & prayer support
Best for singles ready to go all in — with guidance, accountability, and real-time application to transform your relationship patterns for good.
Is this course only for Christians?
How is this different from therapy or premarital counseling?
What if I’m not dating anyone right now?
How long will I have access to the course?
What if I’ve already done therapy or read books on relationships?
Can I do this with friends or a group?
Do I need to take the attachment quiz before starting the course?
What’s the difference between this and the Ready to Run cohort?
Is there a refund policy?
Can I gift this course to someone?
I’m tired of hearing “just wait on God.” Will this course say that too?
You could keep doing what you’ve always done…
You could keep waiting, hoping something will shift out there, when what really needs to shift is in here.
Or…
You could take one bold, faith-filled step toward healing. Toward clarity. Toward the kind of love that doesn’t require you to abandon yourself to feel chosen.
Last Lap: Foundations isn’t just a course. It’s a reset. A guided journey into emotional maturity, attachment repair, and spiritual alignment. It’s the groundwork for a healthy, God-honoring relationship and the tools to walk in it with confidence.
Let this be the season you stop circling the same mountain and start moving forward with language, tools, and truth that actually help you grow.
Secure love is possible.
But it begins with you.
Start today.
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